While talking to
Kristy this morning, I came up with the ideal relationship...at least for me...
- I would only see her 6-7 months out of the whole year. Maybe 2-3 weeks at a time.
- The only correspondence when we are apart are handwritten or typed letter (no e-mail, text messaging, instant messaging, phone calls only for birthdays--although I'm up in the air about this because the birthday card serves the same purpose--and emergencies)
Now automatically you are thinking, "That is incredibly stupid." and even as I said, I thought so too. The reasons are equally silly:
- There would be all the "missing" that comes with a long distance relationship without any of the tediousness of talking on the phone everyday just to remain in contact.
- How hard would it be to argue over pen and pad?
- I'll be honest. I'm better on paper than I am on the phone.
- You get to skip all the boring "How was your day?" conversations that eventually you weigh down.
- With all the technology making everything about getting whatever it is as soon as possible, I miss handwritten letters-writing, sending, reading and re-reading. E-mail isn't the same.
- A relationship like this is pretty easy to end.
Ok, even the reasons are stupid. But that's what fantasies are. Admit it, you like it a little bit.
4 comments:
this is stupid. (i just wanted to say that)
what's the point of a relationship like this? what are you getting out of it?
somewhat related, i recently gave a friend stationery for her birthday. mmhmm.
interesting concept, but you miss out on hooking up regularly.
Yes, but imagine what it's like when you DO hook up.
Quality over quantity.
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